You love Jesus, but your marriage is breaking your heart.

If you’ve been praying, trying to get through to him, and doing everything you can to make this work—but still feel alone and resentful, you’re not crazy.

What you’ve been trying just isn’t working, and that doesn’t mean your marriage is beyond hope.

This might be for you if

  • You’re feeling resentful from carrying the relationship (and everything else) on your own

  • You feel unheard—like he won’t truly listen to your perspective

  • You’ve lost respect for him, and that scares you

  • You feel unseen and unappreciated

  • He’s said things like “I don’t love you” — or acts like it

  • Your heart is quietly breaking

If you’ve

Gone to counseling, talked through the issues a thousand times, taken him to marriage seminars, given him books on marriage, and nothing has changed…

You're in the right place.

I've been there - hurting, exhausted from relationship struggles, hopeless - and God showed me how I could single-handedly transform my marriage, even without my husband being on board.

I would love to help you do that too.

Through coaching using the Six Intimacy Skills, I help devoted Christian women discover practical, Biblical steps to:

Understand what’s really keeping their marriage stuck

Restore emotional connection and communication quickly

Feel loved, adored, and supported

But here’s the truth:

There is a way forward,
but it’s likely the opposite of what you’ve been trying.

Sage Frese, Christian Marriage Mentor for Women and Certified Laura Doyle Relationship Coach, helping resentful, exhausted, lonely women create supportive, easy, intimate marriages every day of the week!

Hi, I’m Sage!

I help devoted Christian women create intimate marriages & happy homes

With the Six Intimacy Skills™ used by thousands of women to successfully transform their relationships

Free Intimacy Skills PDF

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  • "I have had more breakthroughs in the last 6 weeks of coaching then I ever could practicing the skills on my own. Last night my husband told me “I am more attracted to you then I have ever been...” I asked him what he meant and he said, “I can just tell you have made changes.” Wow...I can’t wait to see what the next 6 weeks will bring.

    - Mary G.

  • "Group coaching with Sage saved my marriage. Yes, it SAVED my marriage. My husband had plans to separate, divorce and knew for sure that what was waiting for him after us, was his happiness. Today marks a year since he came back home. This morning he said, "I'm so happy...Happy One Year."

    - J. Vela

  • "At first, showing up to each call was a tremendous effort. I had been in therapy and on anti-anxiety and depression medication because of our marriage problems. Through coaching and this community, not only was our marriage restored, I was even able to wean myself off of meds and find my firm footing in the peace and joy of God again."

    - Christina E.

  • "After working with Sage and her group coaching community, my husband shared that he no longer wanted a divorce and that he wanted a brand new marriage - with me! I’m still living in the shock of that moment. He held me, and I cried. He prayed over me and blessed me. He apologized and cleaned up his side of the street. After months of drought I got to hear him say, 'I love you.'"

    - Joy K.

  • "My husband told me he no longer wanted to be married and moved out of our home. It was devastating; I felt lost. But in this group, I found a safe space where I felt truly heard, supported, and understood. Step by step, I began practicing the Skills and watched as emotional safety grew in my relationship. Then came the day when my husband walked through our door again. I know it sounds crazy, but I am grateful for our breakdown. Our marriage is better than ever."

    - Sarah R.

  • "The most priceless thing I am receiving from practicing the Skills is that my husband has started smiling at me in such a loving way, a way I hadn't seen in maybe 9 years or so. Thank you Sage, and I am so grateful for the Skills!"

    - Carolyn

Group Coaching

Practice the Intimacy Skills in Community

6-Week Intimacy Skills Group Coaching Community + WhatsApp Support
$110.00

Six Sessions

60 minutes Each

Recordings of each session

Tuesdays 8:00 a.m. Central Standard Time

WhatsApp support between sessions with written coaching and wins sharing

Discover the emotional strength of a sisterhood of Christian women in a similar situation, receive the the right information and tools to turn your marriage around, and get the focused attention of an experienced coach who can navigate the pitfalls and guide you to the other side.

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